How to Look Good Naked
Got you with the title, didn’t I?
Get your mind out of the gutter, you dirty, little Beasties!
Looking good naked is not about creams or potions that will remove wrinkles, blast the bulges, or how to coif your hinter-regions into a topiary of passion. Though that might not hurt some!
Rather, looking good naked is removing the masks and cover-ups that we all wear to try to protect ourselves from being hurt.
There isn’t a person I know, either personally or virtually, that has not been devastated by a failed relationship. I am the Queen of Crash and Burn Relationships (all hail the Queen!). Each time one fails, a new layer of protection goes on, a new brick is placed in the wall that we build to keep the hurt way. What happens after a while is that we camouflage our true selves and only present a facade to the world. Then we forge ahead with a fake persona, attract the wrong people with this doppelganger of who we are, and repeat the process, usually with more dismal results. An evil cycle that repeats itself until we get so fed up that we give up.
Let’s get metaphysical (or if you’re a cute, Scorpio compatible dude, physical. Just kidding). Our energy is like polarized magnets. What we radiate out is what we attract back. So if we are project false or veiled energy to the world we will attract people who are abysmally wrong for us. We end up unhappy, disgusted and exhausted from having to keep up the charade.
So you say, “Crabby, what ever can I do to attract Mr. Right For Me?”
I say STRIP! Forget the pole, I don’t mean for you to take center stage at Wiggles. Strip away all the “clothing” that covers the inner, true you.
Become an artichoke and peel back the leaves that cover the inner beauty of who you are. Face the world raw, unfettered, and totally real.Be happy with who and what you are. Be comfortable in your own skin. Dare to present the Universe with the true you and see what you get back and let your freak flag fly! That is looking good naked.
This is one of the hardest self-improvement projects that I have ever done.
Truth is,I was sabotaging myself by cloaking and distorting my true personality and feelings (just so I wouldn’t get hurt) and that was bringing Mr. Wrong to the table. I stopped, looked at what I was hiding from, and then, Poof! Things started to improve, DRASTICALLY. I took up the banner of personal nudity. I went NAKED. No make-up, no holds barred Crabby and if you didn’t like it, see ya! I was NAKED and FREE! Woo Hoo! I’m still REALLY single, but darn it, much happier!
You can do this. I know you can. It’s hard, it hurts, and it won’t happen overnight. But when you come out the other side, all sparkling and real, look out world, here you come!
Be yourself. Love yourself. Look good naked.
Love, Light and Happiness,
Crabby
